My Sedentary Lifestyle.

I spoke with M.P. last night and in our conversation I realized that people who feel something for other people looks at what is good in that person rather than what is not good.:)

I can think of one person right now who, inspite of how I acted in the past still sees me as a person she really care about. No matter what I've done she still love me the same. I am not just talking about lil mistakes. I'm talking big time mistakes and flaws which I consider really evil. She still looks at me in the eye the same way as before - full of love and care. She looks at the best in me. She always tell me how good-looking I am (I'm not sure if I totally agree but she ussually telss the truth or declares by faith.:D) and how kind a person I am and how she feels relaxed when I am around and how she loves to be with me. She is just the person I cannot afford to lose - maybe in this lifetime. She helped me became a better person. The person I'm talking about is my girlfriend, Joyce (M.P. I know you already guessed it.. hehehe). :D. Everytime she puts her arms around me, I ceased to be a programmer, or a dreamer, or a visionary, or a prophet, or a son, or a child, or a friend, or a teacher, or a father - I simply become became what I always am - me.

And indeed of we look at what is good in people and not on what is bad, we will realize that that person will exactly be that good person. I don't know, but most people always noticed what is bad and what is not nice in a person. The moment one person walks in a door, people (like me), will record how short his/her nose is, how ordinary his/her look is, and so on and so forth. But I believe we need to change all that and see people for what they will become and what they are right now.

I have to admit doing this is not the easiest thing but I realized that once you begun to love the person and care for the person, you will see a different strand in that person's character and looks that will make it easy for you to see the good in that person.

I have to admit also that it's not easy to love people, esp the people who hurt you and who don't care but it is also not impossible to do. Love after all is a verb.